Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for two years. Since we moved in together as husband and wife, my wife refuses to take a shower when she gets home from work. Both of us are healthcare workers and I have tried my best to make her see the need for regular showers. I make sure I take a shower twice a day, but she refuses to do the same.  I have talked to her over and over about the need for good personal hygiene as a women. Sometimes she goes to work without showering and comes back home and goes to bed without showering. I even told her that I enjoy sex better when she takes a shower, but she continues to ignore my heart’s desires. I have also complained to her mother to no avail. I am tired of this. What can I do? Please help.

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